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Silence

  "If I'm arguing, I care.  If I'm silent I'm done". 


This couldn't be further from the truth.  Anyone who knows me, knows when I go silent there is a problem.  It simply means I'm done and then cut the relationship (friendship, lover, coworker, family whatever it is).  I'm very good at giving chances but push me enough and I eventually break.  When I argue and continue to share it's because I care.  

I am aware that this is not a healthy way of handling things, I am trying to work on this.  I feel that the above statement will continue to hold true.  At the same time I hope to be able to communicate and be more open to sharing my feelings vs shutting down.  

How do you choose to respond when someone has pushed you too far?


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