Dating Like a Mother

Without coming across as conceded the reality is you either love me or you hate me.  Clearly i have more lovers than haters, i'd go as far as to say that haters are jealous.  Joking aside i have a huge crew of people rooting for me and hoping for nothing but the best with a happily ever after.  Everyone has advice and wants to help.  I know its all coming from a good place and i actually enjoy hearing what they have to say.  Today i'm going to share with you about the time i went out with a good girlfriend who is my right hand girl and was convinced she'd be the best wing woman ever. (she was actually pretty good, and we'll go out again) We picked our poison choosing Sullivans in downtown Naperville as our hunting grounds. We found ourselves cozy little seats at the bar leaving empty seat on either side.  Quickly behind me two gentleman sat down.  My girlfriend noticed them instantly and saw her notice them.  She then instructed me to turn arou...

So, my Little (Big) Blue Ring gets a ton of attention.  Whether its out running errands in yoga pants and a baseball cap or all dressed up people always stop and ask.   I figured a little back story on this beauty is necessary.  I wear the blue stoned ring for my boys.  I actually received it as a gift when my first son was born.  Originally the plan was for a birthstone ring but later blue seemed like the perfect fit especially since i have 3 boys.  Recently the stone fell out and my finger was ringless.  I had it reset and happily it's back on my finger.  The jeweler had a lot of questions about the beauty and i told him it would be the only ring on my finger until the right man places another on my left hand.  he laughed and said dear it doesn't look like it will be that hard.  Oh my, you have no idea.  I just smirked and walked away.

Truth Bomb mom Kristina Kuzmic Offers a powerful message to single moms(Parents).  I usually won't share things like this on my facebook page but thought it was worth writing about on my blog. She recounts the first time she started having really strong feelings for someone after her divorce,  She was determined to make sure that this man knew it all.  All her imperfections, drama and trash, she was sure he'd run without a doubt.  But to her dismay he stuck around only saying he wanted a part of it all.  She decided to introduce her children to him when she was secure in her feelings with him.  She then shares a story that many single PARENTS know very well.  A sick child waking in the middle of the night followed by the waking of the other child all while being sick yourself.  Trying to clean up the vomit and settle everyone.   She decides to pick up the phone and call this man and say...  Why would any sane man sign up for t...