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She's Taken

I'm asked the question every now and then so i'm going to answer it for everyone.  Yes, I'm currently in a relationship.  I haven't been on a first date in over a year now and have been in that relationship for most of that year.  I've also been asked if he's Mr. Right...honestly i don't know.  You never really know for sure until there is that final commitment.  But, what i do know is that he is an incredible man that i defiantly want to get to know even better and spend more time with.  I see us working very well together and share a lot in common.  Dating as a mother is different and at any given time your children take priority.  Thats one of the many things i love most about GC his commitment to his children.  I truly believe that if two people can make it work with children involved then together anything is possible.  We know and understand the balance of US time, kid time as well as juggling work and kid activities.  Sometimes it's hard to find that US time and we go more days in between seeing one another than i like but this is the life we now live.  
I still want more than anything that lifetime committed partner that will not only love me unconditionally but be there as a helper and shoulder to lean on.  Lets be honest, i can handle just about anything thrown my way but there are times when i just want someone to tell me everything is going to be okay.  I think i have a lot to offer a partner and would be an incredible support to someones life, whatever that looks like.  
So, Yes my friends i'm HAPPILY taken!

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  1. UnknownJanuary 8, 2019 at 12:39 PM

    Congratulations! That's awesome you found someone who values you . Does he know this blog exists?

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    1. Mary BethMarch 10, 2019 at 8:12 AM

      Yes! He's know all along and we often joke he'll guest blog ;) He truly is amazing and i thankful and feel very blessed.

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