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He Asked...

He asked if I've blogged about him...  My answer was simple have you read my blog.  And then he gave me that face, the one that makes me smile inside and out.  I responded, Yes, i have twice.  He then asked how i refereed to him...that's a good question.  I guess i didn't really refer to him specifically because i didn't want to give to much away not knowing where or what this really is that we're doing.   But, there is clearly a different tone to my entries about him. So then how do i refer to him?  
This dating thing is a lot more work than i ever realized i knew it was hard but when you add real life plus kiddos plus ex's (they'll always be there) and trying to find time for each other it's hard.  But, i keep telling myself for the right one time and patience is all worth it.  So with time as it will or will not reveal itself patience and understanding is what i'll give.  

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