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Truth Bomb... Kristina Kuzmic

Truth Bomb mom Kristina Kuzmic Offers a powerful message to single moms(Parents).  I usually won't share things like this on my facebook page but thought it was worth writing about on my blog.
She recounts the first time she started having really strong feelings for someone after her divorce,  She was determined to make sure that this man knew it all.  All her imperfections, drama and trash, she was sure he'd run without a doubt.  But to her dismay he stuck around only saying he wanted a part of it all.  She decided to introduce her children to him when she was secure in her feelings with him.  She then shares a story that many single PARENTS know very well.  A sick child waking in the middle of the night followed by the waking of the other child all while being sick yourself.  Trying to clean up the vomit and settle everyone.   She decides to pick up the phone and call this man and say... 
Why would any sane man sign up for this, you say you want this and you say you want everything that comes with it. Then come over.  The Kids are screaming when he arrives, She expected him to walk in and have a look of horror on his face.  This man walked over to Kristina sending her to bed and cared for her children, cleaning up the vomit.  After tucking everyone into bed this man returned to Kristina saying Yes, i want this, All of it, All three of you.
She made this video because she wants all the single parents to know that you don't have to settle.  We all want something wonderful in our lives but we so often don't actually believe that we deserve something wonderful.  We have broken relationships behind us and feel like we have failed. We're exhausted and we're insecure and completely stressed out and stretched to our breaking point.  The thought that someone could love us makes us lose all common sense.  Even though i'm divorced, even thought i'm imperfect, and even though i have children.  DON'T let your insecurities run the show.  
Being a single parent can be hard, lonely and be too heavy of a load for just one person but don't settle.  Someone will love this piece of crap that we think we are.  It will only be the best thing ever if you don't settle.  Someone will love you and love your children as their own. 
I'll be honest i sobbed the whole time i watched the video.  It is out there and it's waiting for you!
If you want to check it out for yourself here is a link.  Or you can google Don't Settle! Truth Bomb Mom Kristina Kuzmic.  
https://www.facebook.com/littlethingscom/.../987285298147509/

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